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Meet Gordon
I’m a user experience designer on a mission to help people connect effectively and deeply through the digital worlds we have at our fingertips. Today with online dating apps, we can connect with people who give energy and meaning to our lives – people we otherwise may have never met!
With over 4 years of joint experience at the communication social media giants Facebook and Twitter, 5 years of projects with our fearless leader Max, and 3 years leading and educating men’s groups about dating and toxic masculinity, I’m here to help create a world with a little bit more love, communication, and connection.
After a coaching session with me, you’ll come out of it with a deeper understanding of the online dating ecosystem, of relationship dynamics, and of yourself.
Let's get you out on some dates!
What I do
I offer one-on-one coaching sessions to get you on the right apps and help craft your profile to set you up for success. I know the ins and outs of every dating app on the market today, as well as the pros and cons of using each one.
Together, I help you assemble the best photos, profile information, and messages to help you get more high-quality matches. With 5 years of hands-on profile crafting and follow-ups, I've seen what makes a great profile.
We’ll have you quickly connecting with your matches and going out on dates sooner than you think. I’ll even help you plan a few!
coaching services
Free Intro Call
Free (Phone call)
Let's face it, most people won't even purchase a burrito without doing a bit of research first. Let's schedule a call and get to know each other.
We'll discuss your dating history, things that did and did not work, your relationship goals, and what you're looking to get out of coaching. Everyone has questions they’ve been hesitant to ask. My role is to discuss and answer each one and help build your confidence through the entire process.
Complete Profile Workshop
$270 (Remote, 2 hours) 🚨 10% OFF 🚨
In this workshop we will do a deep dive to create and polish your online dating profiles to set you up for success with matching, messaging and going on dates!
Once you sign up, you'll be asked to fill out a short survey so I can better understand your personality and hobbies, your current dating strategies, and what you're most looking to get out of coaching. I'll use this information to personalize the workshop to best fit your needs and start brainstorming content for your profile.
Together, we'll work through the 5 Steps to design your profile from the ground up until we reach a point where your profile accurately represents the best, most approachable and attractive version of yourself. Then, we'll talk through strategies to change your approach to online dating, save you time and energy, and maximize your potential for success.
We’ll finish by reviewing your photos and adding captions that tell a story and provide multiple conversation starters. You will come out of this experience with the confidence, tools, and strategies to find and build meaningful connections!
This experience will include:
Choosing the right dating services for you
Writing perfect bios and designing your profile
Selecting your best photos and adding captions
Crafting messages to quickly connect with your matches
First date ideas & strategies to connect and build rapport
Communication and conversational techniques
Follow up advice & coaching
$135/hr (Remote) 🚨 10% OFF 🚨
Like most healthy relationships, I hope our relationship can be more than just a "one and done." Perhaps you have some additional questions about your dating life that need some extra love? Dating – and online dating in particular – can be a complex and confusing endeavor and I'm here to answer any questions you may have and go in depth on a wide variety of topics.
Topics may include:
First date etiquette and overcoming nervousness
Navigating ghosting and flaky dates
Having the exclusivity "talk"
Having the non-exclusivity "talk"
SEX!
Relationship communication strategies
Maintaining long-distance relationships
Getting over a breakup
Toxic masculinity and feminism
Love languages and attachment styles
Anything else!
Testimonials
“Gordon was extremely helpful in crafting my Hinge profile to start matching with people with similar dating goals to mine. I started looking for a life partner and Gordon was very knowledgeable in terms of what prompts and photos I should put on my profile to find the right person. I can confirm that I started getting much higher quality matches after our session and implementing his advice!”
Phillip
“Wow, it’s like night and day. I had no idea I wasn’t showcasing myself in the best way to attract the kind of guy I’m looking for. I’m already getting better matches and conversations with more thoughtful, interesting men who are way more my type!! Gordon’s also very responsive whenever I text him with questions, and gives me very relevant advice :)”
Jamie
"Gordon changed my life!!!"
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